I've been teaching dance since 1990. I've taught hundreds of people to
dance for their weddings. Now I've taken all that I've learned as a
dance professional and turned it into a fun, easy way for you to move
as one and impress all your friends and family with your first wedding
dance, without ever setting foot in a dance studio!
Scroll down to met some of my students and find out how you can get started dancing right away - no waiting!
You and your fiance are the stars of your wedding, so wouldn't you like to dance like stars?
Of course you would! After all,
the minister performs the vows, but your chance to perform comes when
that first dance is announced. It's so important that you look and feel fabulous.
With all your friends
and family looking on, the first dance is your chance to show everyone
what a perfect couple you really are.
(And I'll let you in on a secret
right now: dancing is lovemaking, set to music. So making that first
dance great is an awesome way to start your whole relationship off on
the right foot!)
Dear Mary,
I just wanted to say thank you, thank you for adding so much to
our wedding! Learning to dance with you before our big day not
only amazed our guests, but gave us a new, fun activity to do together
for the rest of our lives. I think my husband was a little
cautious to begin with, but after the first lesson he realized
how much he was enjoying himself. I've always loved to
dance and am grateful to you for teaching us how to glide across the
floor together!
Thanks again!
Karen
When everyone asks, "Where did you find the time to learn to dance like that? "you don't have to admit that you learned a simple system, right in your own home. They'll be so impressed, and I promise not to tell!
Let's face it: even if you could convince your fiance to go
and take dance lessons, you don't have time for them. Luckily for you,
you don't need them.
All you need to learn are a few (very!) simple elements that you
can easily learn at home, and a way to combine them in a simple system
that will have you looking fabulous, fast.
As a competitive dancer, I spent countless hours learning complex steps and patterns.
Hours in the studio? I've been there, done that. Ego-shattering
coaches? I could tell you stories! And I've danced before panels of
super-critical judges, all looking for the slightest mistake, so I know
all about being anxious when it comes to dancing in public.
You know what made all that worthwhile? Becoming confident in my abilities made performing incredibly fun and rewarding. Instead of worrying about performing, I lived for it.
As a professional dance instructor, I've taught hundreds of couples
just like you to dance beautifully at their weddings. But the most
important thing about my experience isn't what I've taught; it's what
I've learned. And now I'm offering the most important things I've learned to you.
Within a few days of downloading my system, after a few short, easy practice sessions, you'll relish the chance to dance. You'll be confident, you'll be graceful, you'll be perfectly synchronized, and you'll know everything you need to know to dance like the perfect couple!
All you need to know, to dance like stars at your wedding, are a
few simple principles of balance, posture, rhythm and movement that you
can learn in a few minutes. Then, you'll combine these easy elements in
a simple system.
You're probably going to video your dance and preserve it forever:
all the more reason to make sure that in years to come, when you watch
it, you think "Wow, we do look good." And by the way, I'd love to see
your dance; Would you, could you, please send me a copy of your video
so I can celebrate with you?
Everyone at the reception will be sure you had to memorize complicated step patterns. From the outside looking in, it will seem as though you must have studied for months to dance so effortlessly. Nope! It was easy. But you know what's even better? From the inside, it feels as good as it looks.
Listen to what some of my students have to say:
To follow my unique system, you need to be able to count to four. Oh, I suppose I have to admit that you need a few other things.
Like, you need to want to connect-really connect-with your partner.
You need to want to express your love in a beautiful, physical way.
It helps if you want to have fun and turn each other on a bit, too.
Step 1: Learn the underlying principles of graceful movement
Before you can dance with grace and poise, you need to be able to stand, breathe, and take a step
with grace and poise. The good news is, I'll show you a few simple
exercises that will allow you to do that within minutes of downloading
my system. Not only will you look great dancing once you understand
these principles, you'll look great everywhere else, too.
Frankly, I'm surprised how many people spend hundreds (even
thousands!) of dollars on dance lessons but who never learn the basics.
Lots of teachers go right into "teaching the steps" as though they were
building a house with no foundation!
Step 2: Learning the box
Your wedding song is almost certainly a rhumba,
a foxtrot or a waltz. (If you don't know which it is yet, don't worry,
because when you download my system, you'll learn how to tell them
apart in a few minutes. It could hardly be any easier, but it is: I'll
also give you a list of the most popular "first dance" songs and break
them out by type.)
No matter what style of dance your song calls for, it's based on a
simple box step. If your fiance can walk down a sidewalk and step
around a parking meter, he can lead you in a box step. Really, it's
that easy. And after learning Step 1 (remember grace and poise) the
simple box looks lovely. You and your fiance are already in "I didn't
know you could dance" territory.
Step 3: Spicing it up
You can already dance, but why stop there? I'll show you how to gently rotate your box.
You'll also learn how to do an underarm turn--ladies, this is where
your man shows you off! By now you'll have turned your handsome husband
into a handsome dancing husband. For that, you deserve to strut! (It
can be our little secret that, in dance, men have only two jobs: to
support us, and make us look great. If only the rest of life was so
simple!)
Step 4: Beginning and ending with a flourish
In the rush to plan and prepare, it's
easy to lose track of the fact that your wedding is all about love.
That first dance is your chance to really show what a perfectly
matched, completely-in-love couple you are. Everyone will be watching
you, so it's important that you walk on to the floor, and that your
groom presents you, in a way that's graceful but commands attention.
And it's only natural to want to end with a flair. You'll learn a
dramatic final dip that will convince everyone at the reception you've
been practicing in secret for months. (How long does it really take?
Oh, ten or fifteen minutes!)
It's specifically geared for couples just like you.
You'll get a concentrated video package that's comprised of 11 elements, each of which is just a few minutes long.
Think of each one as an essential building block.
Watch it, try it: They are easy to repeat and each one addsa new skill that can be learned in a just a few minutes.
You'll also get an e-book that's full of useful tips and essential advice.
All in all, it's everything you need to know to dance like a star--and nothing you don't need to know.
I'll
take you from the moment you step onto the dance floor until you
hearthe surprised and enthusiastic applause of everyone at your
reception.
You'll get all this for less than
one private lesson!
Your complete First Dance Fabulous package costs only $67. That's all you need to dance beautifully
at your wedding, for less than the cost of just getting started in a conventional dance studio.
To say nothing of the fact that you'd probably waste as much time driving back and forth as you'd spend actually learning! And, with First Dance Fabulous, your satisfaction is guaranteed.
Could you pay less for other video dance
lessons? Sure you could. But no other product offers everything that
First Dance Fabulous does. They don't give you a strong foundation in
poise, posture, balance, and breathing. They don't show you how to use
dance to enrich your entire relationship.
And they don't offer a simple system that's easy to remember when you step onto the dance floor and all eyes are on you.
You know, almost all professional dance coaches
charge less, per hour, than Mary does. When you hear the surprised and
delighted applause of the audience at your reception, you'll know why.
Whenever you want, including right now, if you're
in the mood. (And trust me, you'll be in the mood after the first
practice session.) You don't have to make much time in this frenzied
period of wedding planning. After a few practice sessions that are each
just a few minutes long, you'll already look like you know what you're
doing!
"Where can we practice?"
Anywhere! All it takes is a small room, so you can definitely do it at home.
That's
great, because you can build your confidence in private-you (and more
to the point, your fiance) don't have to worry about fumbling through a
first lesson with experienced dancers all around you.
And you don't need to drive across town to a dance studio, either.
The couple that dances together stays together
Although it's really
rewarding to dance beautifully at your wedding reception, it's even
more rewarding to dance through life. Dancing well with your partner
doesn't just make you look like the perfect couple; it helps you to be
a better couple. You and your fiance will literally and figuratively
connect as a couple--building physical skills and nonverbal
communication skills that will last a lifetime.
Mary,
Thanks so much -- I wanted to make sure you were included on the
memories as you really helped Casey and I not only with the dance but
companionship as a whole. We really enjoyed working with you. By the
way the dance went amazing...I was the one who got cold feet though and
forgot what we were doing. No one knew but us and everyone was very
impressed with our moves. The dance was perfectly us...fun and in love!
- Lindsey
I'm a little worried about what the rest of my industry - other professional dance teachers - will think about all of this...
After all, every year thousands of couples just like you spend millions of dollars at dance studios.
Now I'm offering a simple system that generates better results, faster
in the privacy of your own home.
Honestly, I'm not trying to put
traditional dance studios out of business. There are lots of great
dance teachers out there who are improving their
students dancing and indeed their whole lives. In fact, if you decide that you want to go on learning at a dance
studio, my system will provide a perfect foundation. You'll learn more, you'll learn quicker, and better!
How to talk to your fiance about learning to dance for your wedding
Guys are, well, guys. That means that there are plenty of
perfectly great ones who think that they can't dance, and are equally
sure that they won't like learning.
In order to convince them otherwise, you need to be convinced
yourself--so let me start by promising you that if you and your fiance
follow my simple system, you will look fffabulous dancing at your wedding, and you'll have fun learning my system, too.
But
how are you going to convince your fiance of that? Remember, you catch
more flies with honey than with vinegar. So do not try to nag him into
this. Take the approach that you want to share something
wonderful with him.
First, remind him that you have your heart set
on a traditional first dance where you and he are the focus of
everyone's attention. He certainly doesn't want to embarrass himself,
but rather than say, "I don't want you to make us look like a couple of
dorks out there," tell him how much you would love it if the two of you
looked great.
Make sure to tell him that you plan to work
through my simple system together, in the privacy of your own home. And
that it will just take a few sessions of a few minutes a day. Remember
that he's a man, so you should use small words and short sentences, :-)
and you should definitely not get into all the relationship benefits
that also come with learning to dance together.
Tell him that he doesn't have to learn a lot of
complicated steps. He knows from experience that complicated plays
rarely work in big games. He'll like learning my system, a few simple
elements, that he can just repeat until the music stops and the
applause begins.
Tell him the truth: that if he does this with
you, you'll both turn a potentially embarrassing moment into a moment
of triumph. If he does this with you, you'll love him even more than
you already do. Then pause, look him square in the eye and tell him," Dancing is hot."
Keep this in mind: Dancing is hot.
So when you're practicing, make sure to communicate that to your
partner. He may quickly find that he likes it as much as you do.
But maybe you don't even have to talk him into it: Girl, it's
easier to beg forgiveness than to ask permission, so you can download
my system right now and invite your fiance over for that first fun,
easy practice session.
Hi Mary:
Just wanted you to know that our wedding was wonderful and our dance, as
you can see from the pictures, was a huge success. Everyone had fun along with
us. I have to say it was the best night of my life and we are very happy
to be married. Thanks so much for your help.
Take care!
Allison
Do you know how to dance already? Are you planning on teaching your fiance yourself?
In my years as a professional
dance teacher, I'vetaught many couples in which one partner was already
an accomplished dancer and the other was a beginner. Depending on the
exact nature of your relationship, it can be hard to teach your future life partner, because advice and coaching can sometimes seem like personal criticism.
That doesn't mean you can't teach your fiance.
It just means that an outside expert (like me!) can smooth things over.
("Honey, it's not me telling you that you have to take that step with
your outside foot, it's the way it's done--watch Mary on the video.")
And if you do want to teach him (after all,
you're going to teach him other things, like how to sort laundry
into darks and lights) my system breaks everything he needs to know into easy-to-learn elements, and one equally simple pattern. My course can be your perfect curriculum.
It's not just a video. There's a great e-book, too.
You'll also download an e-book that is a complete manual in itself.
The e-book expands on the video lessons and is packed with other great
advice on everything from picking your special song to choosing your
dancing shoes.
A word to the guys:
I know it's traditionally the bride who wants to look beautiful for
her first dance and (warning: sweeping generalization ahead) that the
groom's desire to dance ranges from "couldn't care less" to "violently
opposed". If you fall anywhere in this range, then you are not
alone...but I can help.
Gentlemen, let me just say this: I know you don't want to look like
a fool. I don't blame you. But if you don't dance at all, you'll regret
it for the rest of your life. It's the shining moment when you get to
make your bride's dream come true. For you, it's a dance; from her perspective, she's being whisked around the dance floor by her knight in shining armor.
Not only that, when you apply
the simple, easy system that I've laid out for you in this video,
you'll see that dancing is actually easier than, say, throwing a decent
spiral (and way easier than playing a fairway wood!)
The best part will come at the reception... Picture all your
friends, watching with their wives and girlfriends. Now imagine all
those women elbowing those guys and whispering, "Why can't you dance
like that?...Not that your friends will actually admit you made
them jealous--we both know they won't, but their bruised ribs will tell
the tale!
Seriously, everyone's afraid of embarrassing themselves. You know, they say that most people are more afraid of speaking in public than they are of dying! Well, that's probably true, but the same can be said of dancing, so don't feel bad.
Let's just think about this for a moment: What you're afraid of is
looking foolish, right? So we know that you do care what other people
think. That's why, when you're confident in your abilities and sure
that your audience will be impressed, that fear will turn into triumph.
You'll actually want to have center stage.
And wonderful things happen when you learn a few basic moves. You not only win over the entire audience, your bride, her parents and even your boss; you win out over fear. As crazy as it sounds, you may just bust through barriers in other areas of your life. Most importantly, you'll find that dancing with your bride sets the tone for your whole life together.
The more you're "not the type" to dance, the more your fiance will
love you for doing it! You can only win. So go ahead and say, "yes" to
her; after all, she said "yes" to you.
You can have the beautiful wedding dance you dream of. All you have to do is take this first step.
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Ordering takes just a few minutes and if you've got a fast connection you can start learning right away. Remember Step 1? Grace and poise! After a few minutes training you'll feel the difference and your friends will see the difference.
The more time you have, and the
more you practice, the better you'll get. But really, if you've got
even fifteen minutes a day for a week, you'll look fabulous.
I'm so sure that you'll have a beautiful wedding dance,
that if you don't I'll give you your money back.
I know that if you follow my
simple system, and practice even a few minutes a day for a few days,
you'll be able to dance beautifully at your wedding. That's why it
doesn't take much courage on my part to offer you this simple
guarantee: If you follow my advice and you don't have a beautiful
wedding dance, I'll give you your money back. In fact, if you follow my
advice and feel that it's not working for you, I'll refund your money
even before your wedding!
Just click on the button below, and you and your fiance will be
the stars of your own wedding. It's way easier than you think (and way,
way easier than your fiance thinks!) But like anything in life,
practice makes perfect. So the sooner you start, the better you'll
look. Start right now!
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Thanks to my simple system, you don't ever have to memorize complicated steps.
But you do have to take the first step.
I can't wait to hear from you. And congratulations on your engagement!
Sincerely,
Mary Pinizzotto
The Wedding Dance Expert
PS... What
if you don't download my simple system? You can muddle through your
"first dance"...no one's going to laugh or point. But it's not about
what will happen; it's about what won't. You won't show all your
friends and relatives what a perfectly in tune, completely-in-love
couple you are. And you'll never have a second chance for your fabulous first dance.
You know, dancing doesn't have
to be hard, but it still takes some technique and practice to look
great. No one can just do ballroom. So what are your alternatives?
Well, with a little research, and by checking a few references, you'll
almost certainly be able to find a good teacher.
Maybe you can drop in on a few classes to find a teacher you
like and trust. Or pay from a few hundred to a few thousand dollars on
private coaching. But no matter who
else you hire, you won't learn my simple system...and with all the
stress and distraction of planning your wedding, simple is good!
To say nothing of the fact that wherever you go, you'll spend more
time driving back and forth in your car than you need to spend actually
learning to dance in your own home.
PPS...There are lots of good reasons to download my simple system, and ensure that your first dance is a dream come true. But the best reason is that dancing is making love to music.
That first dance is the beginning of your honeymoon--indeed, the
beginning of your lives as a real couple. Start off on the right foot!
xo,
Mary
Sure you'll be learning in the privacy of your own home, but I'll be here to help
My system is so simple that
most couples can easily master it on their own. But if there's
something that's not clear to you, or doesn't seem to be working, I'm
just an email away. Need to call? Of course you can. I still teach in
person every day because I love it. So personal coaching is totally
possible if you decide that you already look great and want to go to
the next level.
If you get stuck, or need private coaching,
I've included my phone number and contact information in the book so
you don't have to go through this alone.
Anywhere! All it takes is a small room, so you can definitely do it at home.
