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I've taken all that I've learned as a dance professional and turned it
into a fun, easy way for you to move as one and impress all your
friends and family with your first wedding dance, without ever setting
foot in a dance studio!
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Right Now - no waiting!e taken
all that I've learned as a dance professional and turned it into a fun,
easy way for you to move as one and impress all your friends and family
with your first wedding dance, without ever setting foot in a dance
studio!
You
and your fiance are the stars of your wedding,
so wouldn't you like to
dance like stars?
Of course you would! After
all, the minister
performs the vows, but your chance to perform comes when that first
dance is announced. It's so important that you look and feel
fabulous.
With all your friends and family looking on,
the first dance is your chance to show everyone what a perfect couple
you really are.
(And
I'll let you in on a secret right now: dancing is lovemaking, set to
music. So making that first dance great is an awesome way to start your
whole relationship off on the right foot!)
Dear
Mary,
I just wanted to say thank you, thank you for adding so much to our
wedding! Learning to dance with you before our big day not
only amazed our guests, but gave us a new, fun activity to do together
for the rest of our lives. I think my husband was a
little cautious to begin with, but after the first lesson he
realized how much he was enjoying himself. I've always loved
to dance and am grateful to you for teaching us how to glide
across the floor together!
Thanks again!
Karen
When everyone
asks, "Where did you find the
time to learn to dance like that? "you don't have to admit that you
learned
a simple system, right in
your own home. They'll be so impressed, and I
promise not to tell!
Let's face it: even if you could
convince
your fiance to go and take dance lessons, you don't have time for them.
Luckily for you, you don't need them.
All you need to learn are a few (very!) simple elements that you can
easily learn at home, and a way to combine them in a simple system that
will have you looking fabulous, fast.
As a competitive dancer, I spent countless hours learning complex steps
and patterns.
Hours in the studio? I've been there, done that. Ego-shattering
coaches? I could tell you stories! And I've danced before panels of
super-critical judges, all looking for the slightest mistake, so I know
all about being anxious when it comes to dancing in public.
You know what made all that worthwhile? Becoming confident in my abilities made
performing incredibly fun and rewarding. Instead of worrying about performing, I lived
for it.
As a professional dance instructor, I've taught hundreds of couples
just like you to dance beautifully at their weddings. But the most
important thing about my experience isn't what I've taught; it's what
I've learned. And now I'm offering the most important things
I've learned to you.
Within a few days of downloading my system, after a few short, easy
practice sessions, you'll relish the chance to dance. You'll
be confident, you'll be graceful, you'll be perfectly synchronized, and
you'll know everything you need to
know to dance
like the perfect couple!
All you need to know, to dance like stars at your wedding, are a few
simple principles of balance, posture, rhythm and movement that you can
learn in a few minutes. Then, you'll combine these easy elements in a
simple system.
You're probably
going to video your dance
and preserve it forever: all the more reason to make sure
that in years to come, when you watch it, you think "Wow, we do look
good." And by the way, I'd love to see your dance; Would you, could
you, please send me a copy of your video so I can celebrate with you?
Everyone
at the reception will be sure you had to memorize complicated step
patterns. From the outside looking in, it will seem as
though you must have studied for months to dance so effortlessly.
Nope! It was easy. But you know what's even better? From the
inside, it feels as good as it looks.
Listen
to what some of my students have to say:
To
follow my unique system, you need to be able to count to four.
Oh, I
suppose I have to admit that you need a few other things.
Like, you need to want to connect-really connect-with your partner.
You need to want to express your love in a beautiful, physical way.
It helps if you want to have fun and turn each other on a bit, too.
Step
1: Learn
the underlying principles of graceful movement
Before you can dance with grace and poise,
you need to be able to stand, breathe, and take a
step with grace and poise. The good news is, I'll show you a few simple
exercises that will allow you to do that within minutes of downloading
my system. Not only will you look great dancing once you understand
these principles, you'll look great everywhere else, too.
Frankly, I'm surprised how many people spend hundreds (even thousands!)
of dollars on dance lessons but who never learn the basics. Lots of
teachers go right into "teaching the steps" as though they were
building a house with no foundation!
Step 2:
Learning the box
Your
wedding song is almost certainly a rhumba, a foxtrot or a waltz. (If
you don't know which it is yet, don't worry, because when you download
my system, you'll learn how to tell them apart in a few minutes. It
could hardly be any easier, but it is: I'll also give you a list of the
most popular "first dance" songs and break them out by type.)
No matter what style of dance your song calls for, it's based on a
simple box step. If your fiance can walk down a sidewalk and step
around a parking meter, he can lead you in a box step. Really, it's
that easy. And after learning Step 1 (remember grace and poise) the
simple box looks lovely. You and your fiance are already in "I didn't
know you could dance" territory.
Step 3: Spicing
it up
You
can already dance, but why stop there? I'll show you how to gently
rotate your box.
You'll also learn how to do an underarm turn--ladies, this is where
your man shows you off! By now you'll have turned your handsome husband
into a handsome dancing husband. For that, you deserve to strut! (It
can be our little secret that, in dance, men have only two jobs: to
support us, and make us look great. If only the rest of life was so
simple!)
Step 4:
Beginning and ending with a flourish
In
the rush to plan and prepare, it's easy to lose track of the fact that
your wedding is all about love. That first dance is your chance to
really show what a perfectly matched, completely-in-love couple you
are. Everyone will be watching you, so it's important that you walk on
to the floor, and that your groom presents you, in a way that's
graceful but commands attention.
And it's only natural to want to end with a flair. You'll learn a
dramatic final dip that will convince everyone at the reception you've
been practicing in secret for months. (How long does it really take?
Oh, ten or fifteen minutes!)
It's
specifically geared for couples just like you.
You'll
get a concentrated video package that's comprised of 11 elements, each
of which is just a few minutes long.
Think of each one as an
essential building block.
Watch it, try it: They are
easy to repeat and each one addsa new skill that can be learned in a
just a few minutes.
You'll also get an e-book
that's full of useful tips and essential advice.
All in all, it's everything
you need to know to dance like a star--and nothing you don't need to
know.
I'll take you from the moment
you step onto the dance floor until you hearthe surprised and
enthusiastic applause of everyone at your reception.
You'll get all this
for less than
one private lesson!
Your
complete First Dance Fabulous package costs only
$67. That's all you need to dance beautifully
at your wedding, for less than the cost of just getting
started in a conventional dance studio.
To say nothing of the fact that
you'd probably waste as much time driving back and forth as you'd spend
actually learning! And, with First Dance Fabulous, your
satisfaction is guaranteed.
Could
you pay less for other video dance lessons? Sure you could. But no
other product offers everything that First Dance Fabulous does. They
don't give you a strong foundation in poise, posture, balance, and
breathing. They don't show you how to use dance to enrich your entire
relationship.
And they don't offer a simple system
that's easy
to remember when you step onto the dance floor and all eyes are on you.
You
know, almost all professional dance coaches charge less, per hour, than
Mary does. When you hear the surprised and delighted applause of the
audience at your reception, you'll know why.
Whenever you want, including
right now,
if you're in the mood. (And trust me, you'll be in the mood after the
first practice session.) You don't have to make much time in this
frenzied period of wedding planning. After a few practice sessions that
are each just a few minutes long, you'll already look like you know
what you're doing!
"Where can we practice?"
Anywhere!
All it takes is a small room, so you can definitely do it at home.
That's
great, because you can build your confidence in private-you (and more
to the point, your fiance) don't have to worry about fumbling through a
first lesson with experienced dancers all around you.
And
you don't need to drive across town to a dance studio, either.
The couple that dances together
stays together
Although it's really
rewarding to dance beautifully
at your wedding reception, it's even more rewarding to dance through
life. Dancing well with your partner doesn't just make you look like
the perfect couple; it helps you to be a better couple. You and your
fiance will literally and figuratively connect as a couple--building
physical skills and nonverbal communication skills that will last a
lifetime.
Thanks so much -- I wanted to make sure you were included on the
memories as you really helped Casey and I not only with the dance but
companionship as a whole. We really enjoyed working with you. By the
way the dance went amazing...I was the one who got cold feet though and
forgot what we were doing. No one knew but us and everyone was very
impressed with our moves. The dance was perfectly us...fun and in love!
- Lindsey
I'm a little worried
about what the rest of
my industry - other professional dance teachers - will think about all
of this...
After all, every year thousands of couples just like you spend millions
of dollars at dance studios.
Now
I'm offering a simple system that generates better results, faster
in the privacy of your own home.
Honestly, I'm not
trying to put traditional
dance studios out of business. There are lots of great dance teachers
out there who are improving their
students dancing and indeed their whole lives. In
fact, if you decide that you want to go on learning at a dance
studio, my system will provide a perfect foundation.
You'll learn more, you'll learn quicker, and better!
How to talk to your fiance
about learning to dance for your wedding
Guys are, well, guys. That means that there are plenty of perfectly
great ones who think that they can't dance, and are equally sure that
they won't like learning.
In order to convince them otherwise, you need to be convinced
yourself--so let me start by promising you that if you and your fiance
follow my simple system, you will look fffabulous
dancing at your wedding, and you'll have fun learning my system,
too.
But
how are you going to convince your fiance of that? Remember, you catch
more flies with honey than with vinegar. So do not try to nag him into
this. Take the approach that you want to share something
wonderful with him.
First,
remind him that you have your heart set on a traditional first dance
where you and he are the focus of everyone's attention. He certainly
doesn't want to embarrass himself, but rather than say, "I don't want
you to make us look like a couple of dorks out there," tell him how
much you would love it if the two of you looked great.
Make
sure to tell him that you plan to work through my simple system
together, in the privacy of your own home. And that it will just take a
few sessions of a few minutes a day. Remember that he's a man, so you
should use small words and short sentences, :-) and you should
definitely not get into all the relationship benefits that also come
with learning to dance together.
Tell
him that he doesn't have to learn a lot of complicated steps. He knows
from experience that complicated plays rarely work in big games. He'll
like learning my system, a few simple elements, that he can just repeat
until the music stops and the applause begins.
Tell
him the truth: that if he does this with you, you'll both turn a
potentially embarrassing moment into a moment of triumph. If he does
this with you, you'll love him even more than you already do. Then
pause, look him square in the eye and tell him," Dancing is hot."
Keep this in
mind: Dancing
is hot. So when you're practicing, make sure to
communicate that to your partner. He may quickly find that he likes it
as much as you do.
But maybe you don't even have to talk him into it: Girl, it's easier to
beg forgiveness than to ask permission, so you can download my system
right now and invite your fiance over for that first fun, easy practice
session.
Just wanted you to know that our wedding was wonderful and our dance,
as
you can see from the pictures, was a huge success. Everyone had fun
along with
us. I have to say it was the best night of my life and we are
very happy
to be married. Thanks so much for your help.
Take care!
Allison
Do you know how to dance
already? Are you planning
on teaching your fiance yourself?
In my years as a professional
dance teacher,
I'vetaught many couples in which one partner was already an
accomplished dancer and the other was a beginner. Depending on the
exact nature of your relationship, it can be hard to teach
your future life partner, because advice and coaching can sometimes
seem like personal criticism.
That
doesn't mean you can't teach your fiance. It just means that an outside
expert (like me!) can smooth things over. ("Honey, it's not me telling
you that you have to take that step with your outside foot, it's the
way it's done--watch Mary on the video.")
And
if you do want to teach him (after all, you're going to teach
him other things, like how to sort laundry into darks and
lights) my system breaks everything he needs to
know into easy-to-learn elements, and one equally simple
pattern. My course can be your perfect curriculum.
It's not just a video. There's a
great
e-book, too.
You'll also download an e-book that is a complete manual in itself. The
e-book expands on the video lessons and is packed with other great
advice on everything from picking your special song to choosing your
dancing shoes.
A word to
the guys:
I know it's traditionally the bride who wants to look beautiful for her
first dance and (warning: sweeping generalization ahead) that the
groom's desire to dance ranges from "couldn't care less" to "violently
opposed". If you fall anywhere in this range, then you are not
alone...but I can help.
Gentlemen, let me just say this: I know you don't want to look like a
fool. I don't blame you. But if you don't dance at all, you'll regret
it for the rest of your life. It's the shining moment when you get to
make your bride's dream come true. For you, it's a dance; from
her perspective, she's being whisked around the dance floor
by her knight in shining armor.
Not only that,
when you apply the simple,
easy system that I've laid out for you in this video, you'll see that
dancing is actually easier than, say, throwing a decent spiral (and way
easier than playing a fairway wood!)
The best part will come at the reception... Picture all your friends,
watching with their wives and girlfriends. Now imagine all those women
elbowing those guys and whispering, "Why can't you dance like that?...Not
that your friends will actually admit you made them jealous--we both
know they won't, but their bruised ribs will tell the tale!
Seriously, everyone's afraid of embarrassing themselves. You
know, they say that most people are more afraid of speaking in public
than they are of dying! Well, that's probably true, but the
same can be said of dancing, so don't feel bad.
Let's just think about this for a moment: What you're afraid of is
looking foolish, right? So we know that you do care what other people
think. That's why, when you're confident in your abilities and sure
that your audience will be impressed, that fear will turn into triumph.
You'll actually want to have center stage.
And wonderful things happen when you learn a few basic moves. You
not only win over the entire audience, your bride, her parents and even
your boss; you win out over fear. As crazy as it sounds, you
may just bust through barriers in other areas of your life. Most
importantly, you'll find that dancing with your bride sets the tone for
your whole life together.
The more you're "not the type" to dance, the more your fiance will love
you for doing it! You can only win. So go ahead and say, "yes" to her;
after all, she said "yes" to you.
You
can have the beautiful wedding dance you dream of. All you have to do
is take this first step.
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Step 1? Grace and poise! After a few minutes training you'll
feel the difference and your friends will see the difference.
The more time you have, and
the more you practice,
the better you'll get. But really, if you've got even fifteen minutes a
day for a week, you'll look fabulous.
I'm so
sure that you'll have a beautiful wedding dance,
that
if you don't I'll give you your money back.
I know that if you follow my
simple system, and
practice even a few minutes a day for a few days, you'll be able to
dance beautifully at your wedding. That's why it doesn't take much
courage on my part to offer you this simple guarantee: If you follow my
advice and you don't have a beautiful wedding dance, I'll give you your
money back. In fact, if you follow my advice and feel that it's not
working for you, I'll refund your money even before your wedding!
Just click on the button below, and you and your fiance will be the
stars of your own wedding. It's way easier than you think (and way, way
easier than your fiance thinks!) But like anything in life, practice
makes perfect. So the sooner you start, the better you'll look. Start
right now!
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Thanks to my simple system, you don't ever have to memorize complicated
steps.
But you do have to take the first step.
I can't wait to hear from you. And congratulations on your engagement!
Sincerely,
Mary Pinizzotto
The Wedding
Dance Expert
PS... What
if you
don't download my simple system? You can muddle through your "first
dance"...no one's going to laugh or point. But it's not about what will
happen; it's about what won't. You won't show all your friends and
relatives what a perfectly in tune, completely-in-love couple you are.
And you'll never have a second chance for your fabulous first
dance.
You know, dancing
doesn't have to be hard,
but it still takes some technique and practice to look great. No one
can just do ballroom. So what are your alternatives? Well, with a
little research, and by checking a few references, you'll almost
certainly be able to find a good teacher.
Maybe you can drop in on a few classes
to find a
teacher you like and trust. Or pay from a few hundred to a few thousand
dollars on private coaching. But no matter who else you hire,
you won't learn my simple system...and with all the stress and
distraction of planning your wedding, simple is good!
To say nothing of the fact that wherever you go, you'll spend more time
driving back and forth in your car than you need to spend actually
learning to dance in your own home.
PPS...There are
lots of good
reasons to download my simple system, and ensure that your first dance
is a dream come true. But the best reason is
that dancing is making love to music. That
first dance is the beginning of your honeymoon--indeed, the beginning
of your lives as a real couple. Start off on the right foot!
xo,
Mary
Sure you'll be
learning in the
privacy of your own home, but I'll be here to help
My system is so simple that
most couples can easily
master it on their own. But if there's something that's not clear to
you, or doesn't seem to be working, I'm just an email away. Need to
call? Of course you can. I still teach in person every day because I
love it. So personal coaching is totally possible if you decide that
you already look great and want to go to the next level.
If
you get stuck, or need private coaching, I've included my phone number
and contact information in the book so you don't have to go through
this alone.
Anywhere!
All it takes is a small room, so you can definitely do it at home.
